a severe quarrel

Qinmei and I had a severe quarrel last night since Yunghsin and Yihong had had got fevers in the same time. In the viewpoint of Qinmei, everyone should not accept the children's unjustifiable requests, such as like having icecreams or cold drinks etc, especially when they have been ill.

But I thought when Qinmei and I could not take care of them by ourselves and need someone to help, we should not ask him (or her) to do some thing difficult, especially when their helping is free.